Are you ready to become a parent?

If you are already pregnant, it is a little too late to ask if this is the right time and whether you are ready to be a mother. This article is for everyone else who is yet to take this important step. Whether they are ready to become parents or maybe too early. Мake your own judgment.

To having children is a mutual solution
The basis of every strong relationship is honesty and mutual respect. If you want to have a stable relationship, you can not ignore the wishes of your partner. That is why you have to discuss the issue together and decide whether you are both ready and want children.

The baby does not solve your love problems
Sometimes babies really get you closer and they can make you stronger than ever, but if you already have serious problems, the baby will not solve them. On the contrary, changes and additional care will only make matters worse. Your baby is not just a means, it is a human being that deserves to be born in a happy family.

It will be your precious child, but it will not be perfect

I’m sure you often dream of what your kids will be – whether they are playing piano, whether they will be genius scientists, or maybe they will become famous actors … Everyone has dreams, but you have to understand that your unborn child is probably will not meet your ideal expectations. It will not be perfect because none of us is perfect. Accept that you will love him, regardless of everything.

Be realistic about your possibilities

The ideal mother is a mythical being, which we are sure does not exist. That’s why you do not think that you will never want sleep, you will always smile, cook the finest dishes of the world, while your child is always laughing and will never cry for nonsense. Despite the trouble ,you should not to despair. You just have to look at things real. Accept the shortcomings and difficulties and prepare to learn from your mistakes.

Do not allow foreign standards to dictate your life
In the online space you will find any comments and tips: when you need to have a baby, how a perfect mother looks like … Enough! No one other than you yourself knows when the right moment is. You will feel it.

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More on the topic … the next time!