The things , for which we should not compromise

Every parent knows that when the children appear, compromises begin. As a beginning comes the lack of sleep. You can not sleep until the little treasure cries. Over the years, the things with sleeping have normalized, but compromises continue.

Many mothers have forgotten what it is like to go out with friends and to buy a spontaneous a new dress or shoes. For regular visits to the hairdresser and manicurist not to mention. The money goes to clothes, toys, books and accessories for the children, and that is perfectly normal and understandable. But you do not must to forget about yourself, and do not feel guilty if you decide to buy a new blouse, for example. In no case is it a matter of depriving your children of anything at the expense of your personal wishes, but just finding the balance. There are a few things you should not regret buying or wanting to own.
Such as quality jeans, handbag and sneakers. Do not feel guilty if you decide to give a little more money for them. Accept this as an investment – quality items are often more expensive, but they will “survive” much longer. Also, to keep in mind that we are also women (not only mothers), we also need at least once a month to find an hour in person for ourselves ,who to spend in the beauty salon.
And the most important thing is to find at least some free time. Maybe this happens rarely, but every mother needs it. Otherwise there is a huge risk of getting mad. So – put some makeup, shoes at high current, and return for an hour or two in the time before the children appear. Leave the children to their father or grandparents and go out with friends. I say it from personal experience!

Every parent needs a little spare time for himself to feel recharged with energy and positivism! Do not forget this simple rule!