It is not easy

Some women are born to be mothers. Some women learn how to be mothers. Some women feel the burden of motherhood. Sometimes I feel that we mothers sometimes feel bad by the huge weight of motherhood. Load , that we feel constantly on our shoulders.

I myself was surprised when at me appear negative feelings when I became a mother. I was inwardly angry because my life was not the same and I could not deal with all commitments. Nowadays society keeps saying that mothers should try to deal with everything and that the task is easy – moms can cope with all the tasks successfully in everyday life, to be good mothers and devoted wives. Itself motherhood is limited – the child constantly is in your arms, every meal is a small battle, you must to reckoned with kindergarten ,with school ,with work. We believe that all the other moms cope wonderfully with all these tasks without complaining, and we fail. Time to look at motherhood from another angle: Motherhood is not an obligation but a sacred task. Motherhood in any case is not a reward, and purpose with that we can handle. Our great goal is to be useful to our children. Being a mother means you have influence on children – on men and women of the future.

Being a mother is a gift that we deserve and should not doubt for even a second ,that we do not deserve it. Tensions what society is trying to impress is unnecessary. Be mother and boasts how well you are doing with the goal that you have set yourself!